by The Creeping Spleen » Fri Oct 30, 2020 1:32 pm
We're set for 3pm on Tuesday at Greenock Crematorium. Things being what they are, we're limited to twenty people at the service maximum (although the funeral director did say that if there's one or two over the limit, a blind eye will be turned).
I sent my brother a couple of wee humorous anecdotes about mum. No idea if they'll be used during the service.
The Spreadsheet Newspaper
It was a couple of days after New Year. Our first without dad as I recall.
It was quite a bad winter, snow and ice on the ground, bitterly cold, very windy.
I'd volunteered to brave the extreme weather conditions and go to the shops for milk and so on.
"Would you like a newspaper, mum?" I asked. The Greenock Telegraph wasn't published that day.
"Yes," she replied, "But not one of those big spreadsheet ones."
It took me a moment to work out what she meant.
"You mean a broadsheet?"
"What did I say?"
"Spreadsheet."
"Is that different?"
"Yes mum, that's different."
Thankfully she took my word for it, and I eventually got her a copy of that day's Daily Record.
Wheelie Bin Day
Mum could be very particular about some things. The position of our wheelie bin for example, she liked it to go in one or two specific spots so she could see it from the kitchen window.
On Thursday afternoons, she'd be peeping out of the front window, checking how far away the bin lorry was, giving me chapter and verse on its progress.
"It's four streets away."
"Right mum." I'd start getting myself ready.
A minute or two later, "Three streets away."
"Right mum."
"Hurry up, we'll miss our place."
"Hurrying up mum."
"They're nearly at the close door."
If I'm honest, I was getting a tiny bit fed up by this time.
"Would you like me to go down and snatch the bin out of the guy's hands, mum?" I asked.
She bit her lip and thought about it for a moment or two - I could see in her eyes she desperately wanted to say yes - before deciding, "No... Just wait a wee minute until they're away."
Music we decided on is "By Cool Siloam's Shady Rill" for entry music (being honest I think it's a bit of a dirge, but it's one of mum's favourites, so there).
Couple of hymns "Love Divine All Loves Excelling", and "The Lord's My Shepherd".
Then "Highland Cathedral" as retiral music.
After that, it's back to the Tontine Hotel for a feed and a couple of drinkies.
Another sunrise with my sad captains, with who I choose to lose my mind,
And if it's all we only pass this way but once, what a perfect waste of time.